Jacquemus, Rasario
Photography: Diana Guledani
We’ve all asked the question: ‘Is wearing black to a wedding chic or taboo?’ Let’s settle this once and for all. Timeless yet complex, this universally stylish color has long been considered inappropriate for weddings, often being associated with mourning and grief. But as traditions shift and wedding etiquette becomes more flexible, sleek black outfits have transitioned from unexpected to accepted. Before you commit to this bold choice, here are seven important things to consider.
Genevieve Abell, Tatyana Bugaeva
Photography: Nous Nous, Tatyana Sozonova
The Dress Code & Formality
First things first, always be sure to review the dress code and follow the couple’s requested guidelines. You can usually find this information at the bottom of the invitation card or on the wedding website, where weds-to-be share all the wedding weekend's key details, including outfit requirements. Black is a sophisticated choice for black-tie or formal weddings, where a polished look is key. However, for a more casual or daytime celebration, it might feel a bit too somber or overly formal.
P. Johnson, Tatyana Bugaeva
Photography: James E Harvey-Kelly, Tatyana Sozonova
The Wedding Theme
We can't stress this enough—always respect the couple’s vision! Wearing an outfit that doesn’t match the color scheme or overall theme and aesthetic might unintentionally take away from the atmosphere they’ve worked so hard to create. Be thoughtful and considerate with your outfit choice—it's a small but meaningful way to show your support, care, and appreciation for the couple’s special celebration!
The Season
Black is super versatile and can work year-round, but it tends to feel more fitting during the fall and winter seasons, matching the moodier, cooler vibes. For spring and summer weddings, when the days get warmer and brighter, black might feel a little heavy or too hot. In these cases, lighter colors and softer shades are often a better choice—they’ll complement the airy, cheerful atmosphere wonderfully!
Staud, Bon Vivant
Photography: Jes Workman
The Location
Dressing for the occasion? Try dressing for the location. The wedding’s geographic location can also play a big role in your outfit choice—especially if the ceremony is outdoors. A little research goes a long way, particularly for destination weddings. Consider how different environments impact what feels appropriate and looks great in photos. A sun-drenched beach ceremony calls for breezy fabrics and lighter hues that won’t feel out of place against the ocean backdrop, while a lush countryside wedding may lean toward rich, earthy tones that complement the landscape. Dressing with the location in mind ensures you fit the setting and stand out for all the right reasons.
The Venue
Beyond just the destination, the type of venue, where the wedding is being held can influence your outfit choice. A sleek black outfit feels right at home in a formal hotel ballroom or an elegant high-end event space, while a grand historic garden estate might inspire a more refined, romantic look. Even unconventional venues—like museums or art galleries—allow for more fashion-forward choices that complement the creative setting. Keeping the venue’s vibe in mind helps ensure your outfit looks intentional and perfectly suited to the occasion.
Staud, Foorevent
Photography: Andrew Bayda
Cultural & Religious Sensitivities
It’s important to show respect for the couple’s background and heritage, so give your outfit some extra thought and do a little research. Different cultures interpret black in various ways, assigning it different meanings and symbolism. Some associate it with mourning and loss, which, as you can imagine, doesn’t align with the joyful spirit of a wedding. And if you’re still unsure about what’s appropriate, it’s always best to ask—it’s better to check than to unintentionally stand out for the wrong reasons.
The Wedding Party's Color Scheme
It’s probably best to avoid wearing black if it’s part of the couple’s wedding party color scheme! Since black is a go-to choice for bridesmaids and groomsmen, it’s always thoughtful to double-check with the couple about their wedding party’s attire. As a guest, you’ll want to avoid accidentally matching them or drawing attention away from their special roles. The goal is to stand out in a positive way while still respecting the wedding party’s colors and letting them shine.
