There’s something undeniably special about the “getting ready” part of the wedding day. It’s where anticipation hums in the air, laughter mixes with nerves, and fleeting, intimate moments tend to unfold. For Marta Ilardo—a London-based wedding photographer known for her poetic, honest, and quietly observant approach—this window of time is one of the most meaningful to document. As she puts it, “Your 'getting ready' photos set the tone for your entire wedding gallery—think intimate moments, champagne toasts, and the final quiet moments before walking down the aisle.” With that in mind, Marta shares her do’s and dont's to help ensure your morning prep photos feel as authentic and effortlessly chic as the rest of your day.
Choose a Spacious,
Well-Lit Prep Area
The right setting makes all the difference. A room with plenty of natural light and minimal clutter creates a dreamy backdrop for candid moments. Neutral tones are ideal, but more importantly, choose a space that makes you feel calm and excited—because your energy will show up in the photos. And I have to say it: if the room isn’t tidy, the photos won’t be either. My best tip? Designate one person to do a quick sweep and tidy up before your photographer arrives.
Don't Leave the Timeline to Chance
Nothing kills the vibe faster than feeling rushed. Build in extra time for getting ready so there’s room for spontaneous moments, deep breaths, and touch-ups. A little buffer ensures you’re not just checking off the shot list—you’re actually enjoying the morning.
Coordinate Getting-Ready Looks
Matching robes, chic pajamas, or simply a cohesive color palette—these little details make a big visual impact. Not only do they elevate your photos, but they also create a sense of unity among your bridal party. Think understated elegance over anything too kitschy or heavily branded.
Don't Keep Your
Photographer in the Dark
Communication is everything—and your photographer isn’t a mind reader. If there are specific shots you’re dreaming of—like a first look with a family member or a quiet moment alone—talk about it in advance. It’s not about copying Pinterest shots; it’s about aligning expectations and treating the process as a collaboration between you and your photographer.
Add Personal Touches and Meaningful Details
A spritz of your signature perfume, heirloom jewelry, a handwritten note from your partner—these details tell your story. They also give your photographer plenty to work with for those editorial-style close-ups that feel luxurious and personal. The more thoughtful the details, the richer the visual narrative.
Don't Overthink It—Just Be Present
The best photos happen when you forget the camera is there. Take time to savor the experience. Let yourself feel the excitement, the nerves, the laughter. Genuine moments and real emotion always translate into powerful images. Be present, and trust your photographer to capture the magic.
