@fromthedaisies, @alicevicenteweddings
You've been invited to a wedding! Lucky you! But being a guest at such a meaningful event is not only about having fun and socializing. It's also a huge responsibility! To leave a good impression on the marrying couple and everyone else attending the celebration, make sure to get yourself familiar with some important etiquette rules first. Find them below.
RSVP Promptly
Once you get the wedding invitation, let the to-be-weds know whether you can make it to the celebration or not. Usually, an RSVP card is included in the invitation suite, but nowadays, it’s also common for couples to request a digital response. Regardless, make sure to act quickly and respond well in advance. Don’t ignore the deadline stated in the invitation — it’s there for a reason. Without all the RSVPs, it will be hard for the couple to work through the seating plan and other important planning-related details.
Respect the Invitation
Please be mindful and considerate of the invitation! If the invite is addressed solely to you, it's best to assume that a plus-one isn't included unless it's clearly mentioned otherwise. Also, don't respond to the invitation by requesting to bring a date. This could potentially create an uncomfortable situation and add stress to the to-be-weds. Keep in mind: the guest list is meticulously thought through based on so many factors like the venue's capacity and couple's budget, so if there's no mention of bringing a plus-one, it's best not to do so.
@morgancollective_, @dosmasenlamesa
Follow the Dress Code
Traditionally, invitations include all the necessary information about the upcoming celebration, including the dress code. From white-tie and black-tie to cocktail and casual — there are countless variations and each is hinting at a specific type of attire. Still, when choosing your outfit, be mindful of general rules: avoid wearing white from head to toe (unless stated otherwise), and don’t put on something flashy or provocative. Always follow instructions from the bride and groom to be a hundred percent sure that no awkward or embarrassing situations happen.
Be Mindful of Gift-Giving
If there's a wedding registry, make sure to look through it as soon as the couple gives access to the guests. That way, you'll have plenty of options and choose something the couple truly want. Else, you might just end up with something not-so-exciting or irrelevant. If the gift is large, it might be easier to have it shipped directly to the couple's home rather than bringing it to the venue. Trust us, the last thing the newlyweds want to worry about on their big day is how to fit all their gifts into their car!
Arrive on Time
If being punctual is not your strong suit, head off to the venue slightly earlier, especially if you are part of a wedding party or have a special role. You will have more time to admire the beautiful setting the couple has been planning for months and take your seat without rushing. Plus, no one is safe from unexpected traffic or delays. Such situations can make your way to the venue more stressful and ruin all the happy excitement.
Turn Off Your Phone
Imagine your phone ringing loudly right in the middle of the ceremony. Sounds like a nightmare, doesn't it? The best precaution is to switch off your electronic devices beforehand, be that a phone or something else. You will save yourself from feeling embarrassed if things go out of control. Who wants to be remembered as “that annoying one”? Also, we don't recommend playing the paparazzi during the ceremony. The couple most likely invested in a photographer, so leave this job to a professional. If you are desperate to capture some precious moments on camera, wait for the right time to come.
@marionjendrzejak,@nousnousphoto
Don't Talk During the Ceremony
Talking while the bride and groom are sharing their vows is a big no-no. Don’t try to comment on every single move the couple makes, as it might come off as rude and disrespectful. You have the whole day ahead of you, so there will be time for socializing with other guests and giving compliments to the newlyweds. Just wait for it! Once the official part is over, you are free to greet the couple’s family and also to introduce yourself to the guests seated at your table. Oh, and remember to refrain from complaining and sharing negative thoughts!
Enjoy the Party!
Of course, you are here to have some fun, right? When the party time comes, dance, chat with others, and enjoy the food and the bar. Just remember to drink the alcohol responsibly and avoid getting too tipsy. One extra round might lead to some unpleasant situations. More than anything, the newlyweds want you to have an incredible time and remember this day for years. So make their wish come true and make the absolute most of this special celebration!
