Nail Wedding Guest Styling with Heaven Mayhem Founder Pia Mance

When the right accessory changes everything

Photography: Logan Mock, Emma Howie,
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Getting ready for a wedding starts with the outfit, but it ends with the jewelry. That final detail often carries the whole mood. As Heaven Mayhem founder Pia Mance puts it, “Jewelry should feel like the finishing touch, the last thing you put on before heading out the door that makes you feel your best.” That idea sits at the heart of Heaven Mayhem — pieces created to elevate every look with intention. Each one holds its own presence while working seamlessly within a larger outfit, adding definition where it counts most. “A chic dress, a voluminous blowout or slick back, and Heaven Mayhem pieces that tie it all together. From black-tie evenings to coastal ceremonies, Pia brings that philosophy to life across six distinct wedding guest moods—each one guided by her belief that the smallest detail can define the entire ensemble.

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Evening Opulence

The after-dark dress code leans toward sleek tailoring and subtle glamour. Pia’s philosophy? “Keep it elegant and effortless.” Her pick — Heaven Mayhem’s Odette Pearl Earrings — taps into that balance: vintage shape, modern energy, and just a hint of shine." The Odette Pearls are vintage-inspired and feel classic. I love them styled with something unexpected, like a structured blazer — they add a chic touch, to any look” she shares. Paired with strappy sandals and a refined clutch, the look grounds evening dressing in quiet confidence.

1 HEAVEN MAYHEM Odette Pearl Earings, $90
2 THE ROW Bare Leather Sandals from Net-a-Porter, $890
3 ETERNE Stella Maxi Dress from FWRD, $325
4 THE ROW Peggy Leather Clutch from FWRD, $2900
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Courthouse Cool

Minimal, tailored, and quietly modern. This look is built for sleek city ceremonies and micro receptions. Structure leads the way here: sharp blazers, silk or satin separates, pointed mules, and compact top-handle bags that feel architectural without being loud. For jewelry, Pia leans into restraint. The Clemmie Earrings echo the outfit’s simplicity with soft sophistication. “Chic and understated,” she says. “The Clemmie Earrings are for the guest who loves subtle sophistication. They’re the perfect finishing touch for a minimalist silhouette.” Clean lines and precise details prove that simple can still make a lasting entrance.

1 SAINT LAURENT Mules from Saks Fith Avenue, $830
2 HEAVEN MAYHEM Clemmie Earrings, $95
3 FENDI Mini Bag, $4,500
4 L'AGENCE Pencil Skirt, $295
5 JACQUEMUS Jacket from Mytheresa, $1,615
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Bohemian Escape

For a chic coastal celebration — flowing fabrics, sun-kissed tones, and an easy, effortless vibe. Breezy pastels and featherweight textures set the tone, like a pale yellow dress that brings a hint of sunshine to any look. The Iris Earrings echo that spirit with a sculptural square top and tapered drop that create subtle movement and balance. "The Iris Earrings are perfect for that effortless vibe,” Pia notes. “Bronzy makeup, a slick back bun, and a bare neckline — just the right mix of ease and refinement.” Paired with an open-toed mule or barely-there heel, the whole look moves with the breeze.

1 HEAVEN MAYHEM Iris Earrings, $100
2 THE ROW Peggy Clutch from The Editorialist, $2,900
3 PARIS TEXAS Mules from Net-a-Porter, $645
4 JACQUEMUS Maxi Dress from Mytheresa, $935
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Cocktail Soirée

Sharp tailoring, shorter silhouettes, and a playful elegance that bridges formal and fun. This mood thrives on contrast — structured minis, unexpected textures, and tailoring that feels deliberate but never serious. Think suede or satin dresses, patent or pointed mules, and accessories that toe the line between polished and party-ready. For jewelry, Pia turns to a signature: The Mini Knot Earrings. “The Mini Knots are a Heaven Mayhem staple for a reason,” she says. “They instantly make your look feel elevated and chic — perfect for day-to-night ceremonies.” Glowy skin and a smoky eye, she adds, keep the makeup “polished but not precious — striking that sweet spot between dressed up and effortless.”

1 SRG Mini Dress from FWRD, $700
2 AMINA MUADI mules from FWRD, $970
3 BOTTEGA VENETTA Intrecciato Clutch from Moda Operandi $3,200
4 HEAVEN MAYHEM Mini Knot Earrings, $90
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European Villa Affair

A nod to old-world refinement: timeless palettes, sleek silhouettes, and accessories that feel heirloom-worthy yet modern. “Elegant with a hint of drama,” Pia says, setting the tone for the entire look. Her pick: The Clarke Cuff, a sculptural bracelet that bridges romance with restraint. "The Clarke Cuff adds a strong edge that I think is perfect for a dreamy villa affair. It’s beautifully worn solo with a maxi dress, keeping your look effortlessly confident.” Think elegant necklines, column-like tailoring, and a classic pump, grounded with a minimal shoulder bag. The palette feels historical but never heavy, with elegance seen through a modern lens.

1 HEAVEN MAYHEM Clarke Cuff, $100
2 ALTUZARRA Bag, $995
3 SAINT LAURENT Pump from FWRD, $1,550
4 MAGEL CORONEL Dress from FWRD, $480
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Modern Muse

Architectural shapes, bold color, and statement pieces that feel distinctly contemporary. Think looks that lean into structure and simplicity — satin maxis with a subtle cinch at the waist, sculptural heels in coordinating tones, and sleek, rectangular clutches that mirror the lines of the silhouette. For jewelry, Pia turns to The Lenora Earrings. “Sculptural earrings really add the perfect final touch,” she notes. “The Lenora Earrings are one of my favorites from our Holiday Collection. They are forever timeless and add glamour yet remain refined with a modern touch.” Ideal for a rehearsal dinner, chic cocktail-hour reception, or any city wedding moment where the dress code leans modern and refined.