Natasha Schweitzer, Sarah & Sebastian
Your engagement ring is a sparkling reminder of love, devotion, and the beginning of an exciting new chapter. And while it may look invincible, trust us—it’s not. Thoughtful care goes a long way in keeping the sparkle sharp and the metal in mint condition. We teamed up with top jewelry experts to break down exactly how to treat your engagement ring right, because nothing says forever like a well-loved diamond.
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Photography: Arrow Radisch, Rochelle Flynn
Know When to Take Your Ring Off
Once you’re engaged, the temptation to show off your ring everywhere is high, which is totally understandable. But be mindful of where you wear it, and take it off whenever there’s a risk of damage. Rebecca El Morr, founder of Sydney-based fine jewelry brand LeiL, notes: “It’s not about removing your ring constantly, but knowing when it’s at risk. Heavy knocks on hard surfaces can bend the band or wear down the rhodium plating that gives your ring its shine. Take it off at the gym, in the pool, or during any activity where it is exposed to chemicals or hard surfaces.”
It’s also wise to avoid wearing your engagement ring while you sleep. Fingers can swell overnight, potentially cutting off circulation. You could injure yourself, the ring, or both—and either scenario is guaranteed to cause stress and panic.
Stay Away from Harsh Chemicals
Beyond physical knocks, another hidden danger to your ring is chemicals. As Rebecca El Morr explains, “By protecting your ring from knocks and chemicals, you’ll reduce the need for re-plating or frequent polishing, while allowing the gold to develop a natural patina that adds character over time.”
One of the biggest threats is chlorine. David and Katie Farrugia, founders of the New York fine jewelry label Uniform Object, always remind couples to stay cautious: “Chlorine can weaken the gold and cause the setting to loosen. Salt water is generally fine in moderation, but we don’t recommend exposing your ring to salt water for prolonged periods of time. Regular showers and hand washing, however, are fine.”
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Always Keep Your Ring Clean
Your ring may be built to last, but even the brightest sparkle needs a little help. To keep its shine, make light cleaning part of your regular ritual. Uniform Object recommends: “Clean your ring with a dish soap, warm water, and a soft toothbrush. It will help the ring sparkle without damaging the piece, and it’s an easy way to maintain your engagement ring between polishings at your jeweler.”
For your ring to stay in top shape, Rebecca El Morr of LeiL adds that it’s best to avoid any aggressive methods: “Avoid frequent use of ultrasonic cleaners or harsh chemicals, as these can thin the metal and loosen stones.”
Cleopatra’s Bling, Natasha Schweitzer
Avoid Product Buildup
As good as your skincare routine is for your hands, it can be tough on your jewelry. That’s why Los Angeles–based fine jeweler Jonne Amaya emphasizes applying lotion or sunscreen before slipping on your engagement ring—not the other way around. “Over time, buildup from these products can dull your diamond and reduce its brilliance,” she points out.
Check for a Loose Stone
One of the biggest worries for ring owners is losing a stone. To help avoid this, Uniform Object suggests a simple trick: “Shake your setting near your ear to check if your stone is loose. If you hear rattling, take it to your jeweler to be tightened. You shouldn’t wait until the stone visibly moves.” For extra peace of mind, the team suggests opting for a bezel setting over a prong setting.
Sarah & Sebastian, Maggi Simpkins
Schedule Professional Check-Ups
Stay attentive to your ring and take note of any changes. If something seems off, visit a professional immediately before it turns into serious damage. The best prevention, however, is scheduling a yearly check-up with your jeweler. “They can tighten claws, reshape the band if it’s bent, and ensure your stones stay secure for the long run,” says Rebecca El Morr of LeiL. It's always better to be on the safe side.
Cleopatra’s Bling, Cushla Whiting
Keep it in the Same Secure Place
Even if your ring stays safe from scratches or chemicals, accidentally losing it is an all-too-common worry. “Most rings go missing when they’re taken off in a rush,” says Rebecca El Morr of LeiL. “Keep a small jewelry pouch in your bag—always in the same pocket—and a tray by the door at home.” When you're not wearing your ring, keep it in the same place every time. As you build this habit, you’ll never have to wonder where you left it.
Insure Your Ring
However careful you are, your ring still deserves backup protection. Jewelry insurance covers loss, theft, or damage, so you’ll never have to face the heartbreak of a worst-case scenario. Most jewelers provide an appraisal at the time of purchase, but it’s important to update that appraisal every few years as values change.
