@katiejulia_,@emiliewhitephotography
Since a wedding is a special occasion for both partners, all tasks and responsibilities should be shared. However, grooms often make various mistakes in the lead-up to and during the celebration. Some of them can cause unnecessary drama and create stressful situations. To help you avoid these pitfalls, we have compiled a list of the 5 most common mistakes grooms tend to make.
Not communicating with your partner
Communication is key in any relationship, and especially when planning a wedding. The lack of communication can lead to misunderstandings and conflict. It’s important for the groom to voice his vision, ideas, preferences, and expectations, instead of staying silent the whole time. Make sure both you and your partner are on the same page!
Skipping meetings with vendors
It takes two to tango, right? However, many grooms leave all the planning to the bride and her family, which is a big mistake. As a groom, you should be involved in the process as well and share the responsibilities equally. Accompany your other half to meetings with key vendors and take an active part in all discussions. This way, no important detail will be overlooked or forgotten.
Overspending
Just like brides, grooms too tend to overspend on weddings. No wonder! It’s easy to get caught up in the moment and say yes to everything too soon. Take your time and be mindful before making any financial decisions. Else, this can lead to financial stress for the couple. It's important to set a budget and stick to it.
Improvising vows
It's not uncommon for the grooms to improvise their wedding vows. Not the best idea, if you ask us! Your vows are a symbol of commitment and should be prepared well in advance of the wedding date. So take time to write out your thoughts and rehearse beforehand. This way, you will avoid awkward situations and deliver a heartfelt message that reflects your true feelings and emotions.
@dosmasenlamesa, @velvetandgold
Drinking too much at the wedding
We know it's your wedding and you are super excited, but remember to drink responsibly. The last thing you want to do on such a special day is to embarrass both your partner and yourself. So know your limits! If you might get too carried away with drinks, consider asking one of your groomsmen to keep an eye on you.
