Your wedding photos will become a timeless part of your family’s story, something you'll revisit with fondness for years to come. Undoubtedly, you’ll want to look your best in every shot, but in the pursuit of perfection, it’s easy to lose sight of what makes you, well, you. So, how can you stay true to yourself while still looking flawless? THE WED asked top wedding photographers to share their tips on making your photos as authentic as your love story. Here's how they suggest to show up in your photos with confidence, comfort, and zero pretense.
Marcos Sanchez, Cassidy O Photo
Choose a Photographer You Trust
The best wedding photos don’t come from a shot list—they come from trust. The kind that lets you be fully yourself in front of the camera. This is the philosophy of Canadian photographer Kaela Leone, capturing love stories with her signature blend of style and soul. “Your wedding photos will feel most like you when you work with someone who understands your energy, values, and aesthetic,” she explains. “Instead of handing over a rigid shot list, trust your photographer to document the day as it naturally unfolds—candid, emotional, and effortlessly stylish.”
Catch the Emotion,
Not the Pose
While posed portraits might end up on your parents’ wall, the heart of your wedding album often lives in the unplanned moments—the stolen glances, the inside jokes, the wind catching your veil. These are the memories you’ll return to again and again. “These authentic interactions reveal your true personalities,” emphasizes photographer Matt Ashton, whose boundless portfolio features romantics from across Australia and beyond. “They allow you to be who you are as a couple on the day—sharing quiet moments, laughter, or spontaneous interactions. A skilled photographer will capture the raw emotions that define your relationship.”
Maximova Wed, Cassidy O Photos
Let the Details Tell Your Story
Sometimes the smallest touches that leave the biggest impact. Cassidy Oberleitner, founder of Cassidy O Photos, encourages couples to be intentional with every detail—from the grand to the subtle. “If you want your photos to reflect you personally, then not only should your venue hold meaning to you, but so should the smaller details you incorporate,” she notes. “Perhaps you borrow your mother’s jewelry for the day, or the flowers in your bouquet may include those your partner gave you on your first date. Remember those little things—and have them captured, too.”
Focus on Feeling
The most meaningful wedding photos come from the connections you share with those around you. As Kaela Leone perfectly puts it: “The best photos aren’t just about how you look; they’re about how you feel. Hug your grandparents. Dance barefoot. Steal quiet moments with your partner. The more you connect with your people, the more your wedding gallery will feel like you.”
Let Go of Perfection
Chasing the flawless shot won’t get you far. True authenticity shines when you embrace who you are and let go of the pressure to be perfect. “Focus on the love you share, who you are as a couple rather than striking a perfect pose,” reminds Matt Ashton. Kaela Leone agrees: “Let go of the pressure to have a ‘perfect’ wedding and instead embrace the beautifully imperfect reality of the day.”
Don’t Fall for the Trends Trap
Trends can spark inspiration, for sure, but they won’t always align with you and your story. “Trends are cool, but they come and go, so don’t try to follow them all. Stick to the ones that truly show who you are,” advises Marcos Sanchez, Barcelona-based photographer who's spent over 15 years capturing the real magic of weddings.
Wear What Feels
Authentic to You
Your wedding photos should feel like you, and what you wear is a big part of that. Don’t feel bound by tradition. If a non-traditional look speaks to your style, own it. "Whether it’s a sleek, fashion-forward gown, a vintage suit, or something unconventional, your outfit should represent your personal style," encourages Kaela Leone.
“If a ball gown doesn't feel right to you, maybe opt for a sleek jumpsuit or satin slip-style dress instead," adds Cassidy Oberleitner. "You could also consider outfit changes to showcase different sides of your personality—something more formal for the ceremony, and something fun and casual for the reception.”
Embrace the Moment
Above all, make sure to have the time of your life. When you’re fully in the moment, that’s when you'll glow the brightest. "Forget about the photos! Have the most fun ever! Enjoy every minute of your day, and your photographer will capture pictures of you being you," shares Marcos Sanchez, revealing his personal secret to getting the most authentic imagery.
