Want to understand your partner even better? Books that explore the psychology of relationships between men and women might help you out. There, you will find the keys that will allow you to open the door to a happy family life full of harmony, peace, and love. We've selected 5 books you need to read before getting married. Find them below.
The Five Love Languages
Written by Gary Chapman, the book reveals how different people express and experience love in different ways. The author outlines five so-called love languages. They include words of affirmation, gift-giving, quality time, physical touch, and acts of service. Chapman believes that lovers should not only listen to their hearts but should always try to listen to each other. From the book, you will learn how to understand your partner's love language and how to express your feelings the right way.
Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
Once love and intimacy are replaced by constant quarreling, disappointment, and dissatisfaction — both partners suffer. So, is there a way to fix everything? Dr. Sue Johnson knows the answer. In Hold Me Tight, a clinical psychologist tells everything about Emotionally Focused Therapy, a short-term therapy aimed at improving romantic relationships between partners by rekindling the physical and emotional bond. On the pages of the book, you will find helpful advice, real case studies, and practical exercises. Johnson will teach you how to have a healthy relationship and ensure a happy lifetime of love with your significant other.
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The Art of Loving
The Art of Loving is one of Erich Fromm’s most famous and quoted works. Even though the book was published back in the 1950s, it remains relevant even today. In his classic work, social psychologist explores various forms of love such as romantic love, the love of parents for their child, and self-love. Is Love an Art? Or is it just a pleasant feeling? How to love? This timeless book will help you find the answer.
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
Published in 1992, the book 'Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus' is now viewed as a modern classic. Dr. John Gray, the author of the book, explores the differences between men and women. He believes that only by acknowledging them will the partners be able to improve their communication and have harmonious and healthy relationships. Based on years of counseling, the book teaches couples to accept each other, despite differences in communication styles, emotional needs, and behavior.
Radical Forgiveness
The book written by Colin Tipping will definitely reframe your perception of your past and present. It will teach you how to transform difficult emotions like anger and fear into unconditional love and gratitude. In his work, Tipping outlines the quick and easy-to-use practices that will help you let go of old grudges, get rid of the feeling of guilt, and find inner peace. If you want to heal your relationships and learn how to find mutual understanding in any situation — this book is worth your attention.