With the countdown hitting the one-month mark, your wedding day is almost here! You've chosen your gown, the excitement is growing, and your vision is closer than ever to becoming a reality. However, with just weeks to go, those final details may feel both exhilarating and a little overwhelming. But you've got this – and we've got you covered. This curated 30-day wedding checklist is your stylish, step-by-step guide to ensure that everything goes smoothly and as planned. Covering everything from beauty preparation and dress fittings to writing your vows and checking in with vendors, this guide ensures that these final weeks are as graceful and intentional as your upcoming walk down the aisle!
Secure Guest Count
& Check RSVPs
You should have received all the RSVPs by now, but let's be honest – there's always that one person who's late to everything. Now is the time to finalize your guest count and gently follow up with those who have not yet responded. After, share the final number of people with your coordinator, caterer and venue, and confirm any special dietary requirements. It's not just about logistics – it's also about ensuring that each guest feels welcome and appreciated, while also giving you and your partner peace of mind heading into the day.
Schedule Your Final Wedding Dress Fitting
Your dream gown deserves the perfect finishing touches! Your final fitting is when your dress will be tailored to your exact measurements, ensuring that you look and feel your absolute best on your big day. Bring your wedding day shoes, lingerie and accessories to see the complete look come together. Also, use the fitting as a chance to move around, sit, and even dance a little—so you know everything feels just right.
Revisit Wedding Day Transportation & Logistics
Now it's just the right time to finalise your transportation details – especially if the venue is in a remote location or abroad. Double-check the routes, pick-up times and addresses so that everyone gets where they need to be without any stress. And don’t forget to share a clear schedule with your wedding party and anyone traveling with you, so no one’s left guessing where to be and when.
Make Final Bridal
Beauty Appointments
Schedule your facials, brow shaping, waxing, nails, and hair appointments well in advance – your glow deserves time to bloom, not be rushed. These moments of self-care aren’t just routine, they’re part of the ritual that prepares you, body and mind, for the most photographed day of your life. If you want the full bridal beauty guide, discover our detailed checklist to pre-wedding beauty prep here.
Write Your Wedding Vows
Whether you’re going for a classic style or a creative one, it’s time to bring your vows to life. Write from the heart, then practise reading them aloud. Keep them in a beautiful keepsake notebook or have them printed for an extra personal touch. Give yourself quiet time to reflect before writing, and don’t be afraid to edit over a few days. Aim for sincerity over perfection—it’s about meaning, not memorization.
Confirm Details with Vendors
A quick round of vendor confirmations can make all the difference! Touch base with your planner, florist, photographer, DJ, and officiant to align on final timings and expectations. Reaffirm your vision, clarify key details, and then trust your team to bring it to life. Calm, clear coordination is the chicest bridal superpower.
Oxana Nesmeyanova, Hendika Wahyudi
Revisit Your
Wedding Day Timeline
With so many moving parts, your timeline is the backbone of your big day. Walk through it hour by hour to spot any gaps or overlaps. Make sure you update everyone involved so that nobody is left guessing. Confirm buffer time between key moments like getting dressed, traveling to the venue, and portraits, so you're never rushed. A thoughtful timeline sets the tone for a day that feels calm, clear, and fully enjoyable.
Rehearse Your First Dance
Whether you’re planning a fully choreographed show or a slow, romantic dance, make sure you rehearse. Practising with your partner can transform pre-wedding nerves into one of your most enjoyable rituals. Don’t aim for perfection—focus on connection, chemistry, and fun instead. Wear similar shoes to what you'll have on the day, and pick a time when you're both relaxed so the moment feels more like a date than a rehearsal.
Finalize Your Wedding Favors
Whether it’s custom cocktails, chic keepsakes, or locally inspired edible favors, now is the time to finalize and prep each one with care. Wrap them beautifully, add thoughtful tags or notes, and arrange them at place settings or display tables as needed. It’s these small, curated touches that leave a lasting impression – and turn your celebration into a memory that lingers.
Wrap Up Post-Wedding & Honeymoon Plans
Your final to-dos aren’t just about the big day—they’re about setting yourself up for what comes after. Confirm all your honeymoon arrangements and make sure your home is ready for you to relax in after the celebrations. A little planning now will pave the way for a blissfully smooth transition into married life, free from inbox overload and last-minute suitcase stress.
Pack Your Bridal Beauty Emergency Kit
Consider it your wedding day SOS – essential and entirely bride-approved. From blotting papers to safety pins, this kit is your quiet hero behind the scenes. Hand it off to a trusted bridesmaid to keep it within easy reach. It’s the ultimate chic survival kit! Explore everything you’ll want to include in our guide here.
Make Final Vendor Payments
Settle any outstanding balances with your vendors well before the big day. This simple yet crucial step lets you fully immerse yourself in the celebration, free from financial worries. Settle any outstanding balances with your vendors well before the big day. This simple yet crucial step lets you fully immerse yourself in the celebration, free from financial worries. Double-check payment methods, due dates, and confirmation receipts so there are no surprises. If tips or thank-you gifts are part of your plan, prepare envelopes in advance and assign someone you trust to hand them out on the day.
Sammie Chan, Vladimir Radikovskiy
Finalize Your
Wedding Music Playlist
Curate your own soundtrack – from the walk down the aisle to the final dance – with intention and flair. Make sure your DJ or band knows your “must plays” and “do-not-plays”. From high-energy hits to drama, this playlist will set the emotional tone for your day.
Secure Your Marriage License
& Legal Documents
The most important paperwork of your life deserves extra attention, right? Research local legalities, gather your IDs, and apply for your marriage license well in advance. Take it with you on the day and give it to someone responsible, such as your planner or officiant. Don’t forget to check if any documents need to be signed or witnessed after the ceremony—and know where to send them to make it all official.
